Tuesday, April 2, 2013

"The Porch" - Made it On Monday

Today on "The Porch" (my yearly series where friends will open up their hearts and share more than their crafts!) I have the sweet and talented, Jill from Made it On Monday! I have been blog friends with Jill for awhile now and I love her amazing recreations she sews for herself and her blogging balance she keeps in her life, her heart for God and how that shines in all she does loving her family! Thanks for being here today! 


Welcome Jill!

Hi there! I’m so excited to be a part of this series. I love how genuine and friendly Vanessa is. I think if we were to meet in person we would have a lot of fun. I’m a wife to a Civil Engineer, and mommy to a playful, imaginative, smart and emotional 3 year old son and a crazy, energetic, happy 6 month old daughter.
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(My babies)

I blog in a few places—Made it on Monday is where you’ll find me the most. It’s all about crafting, sewing, creating and inspiring. My favorite projects are clothes I make for myself, but a close second would have to be either my daughter’s nursery or our current kitchen re-do. I also have a blog called Satisfied with Adequate where I’m slowly getting in the habit of posting. I’d say what I’m sharing today fits under that heading better than that of crafting.

In the house I grew up in my parents had a beautiful, large, fenced in front patio. My dad is a lover of plants and growing them, and my mom has a green thumb with flowers so the brick patio was surrounded by beds, boxes and pots full of a colorful array of flowers. Summer evenings were beautiful out there with our mild Oregon weather and breezes coming over the coast range. So let’s imagine we’re sitting in the wicker furniture my mom had carefully arranged out there, holding glasses of iced tea, and have some kindred spirit conversation about what my heart has been learning.

I’ve been on a bit of a journey over the past year and a half—learning more about myself, my role as a wife/mom/Christian/friend/crafter and ultimately coming to a place of contentment. In November of 2011 I stepped down from my job as Children’s Ministries Director at our church to be a full time stay at home mom. My new title was the role I had longed for, dreamed of since childhood and stepped into willingly. However, I still found myself in a grieving period as I saw one stage of my life come to a close. I think grief in any life-stage transition is to be expected. After a few months of spending a lot of time cuddling with my son, watching a whole lot of TV and slowly regaining my energy (only to then get pregnant and lose it all over again), it was time to figure out who I was.

I’ve found that I’m a terrible house keeper, but if I develop a routine I can maintain a tidy kitchen. My son and I spend a lot of time together, but we connect more through morning cuddles than we do through playing together with toys. I love time with friends, but most days I’d actually rather spend time at home with my kids. I love sewing and crafting, but unless I’m feeling emotionally overwhelmed, I don’t really make the time for it. And even though it isn’t true, I convince myself that my husband thinks I’m falling short in my duties as a stay at home mom.

While all of the above statements were true of me when I worked as well, how I see myself, and accept that self, is changing. One of my former volunteers sat next to me in church on Sunday and at one point said, “I think you’re a quieter person than I thought you were.” Her words have been rolling around my mind since then and I think she’s right. While I’m still just as talkative as ever and don’t mind being in front of groups or adding to the life of the party, my pace of life is quieter, and as a result, so is my heart. I know that I am in the role I am called to and I find myself content with that fact.

Being content with where I am in life doesn’t mean that I need to just accept my flaws and ignore the areas in need of growth. Instead it’s meaning that I allow the peace of Christ to rule my heart (Colossians 3:15). It’s knowing that I can’t overcome my failings or act in spite of them on my own—my adequacy is from God (2 Corinthians 3:4). And being content means remembering that He has searched me and He knows me. When I am steady and consistent in my quiet times, shining His light to those I meet and marveling at His glory at every turn—He’s with me. But He’s also with me when I am at my lowest—screaming at the dog, tripping through my toy-littered living room and trying to dig the least filthy sippy cup out of my dirty dish filled sink, as my dusty Bible asks for my attention. He made me. He has searched me. He knows me—the deepest part me that even my husband and mom don’t see. He knows the struggles, the fears, the hurts, and the guilt that plague my mind. And through all of that, He wants to pour out His love on me. And so I rest in that fact. I rest my heart. I rest my mind. I rest my spirit. I rest my weary body. I rest. And when I find myself with that unsettled, discontented, tired and worn feeling once again, I plead: “Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” Psalm 139:23-24. And He will be faithful to mend, heal, convict, strengthen, challenge, and ultimately, bring peace. And when that peace comes, so does the contentment.

Psalm 139 23-24

(As a side note to those of you who feel like this place of peace and contentment is impossible for you to reach, take a moment to listen to THIS song and follow along with the lyrics. I have felt this way so many times (even in recent days and weeks) that it brings tears to my eyes. There is hope. Redemption does win.)



Thank you so much Jill!!! I needed this reminder today to be content in Jesus. My house feels overwhelming coming off a busy Easter weekend (laundry on the couch, dirty dishes in the sink, etc) and it's so easy to get caught up in those things that easily stress me, than striving for peace from God and letting him fill me up again! Thank you for sharing that encouraging song! I will have a new outlook today to rest and be thankful! 

If you would like to see more from Jill, head on over to Made it on Monday! She's been sharing some really neat kitchen redos lately! 
 Thanks, again, Jill! You have been such an encouragement to me!